You'll have more dates so whats the big deal? It is no longer any of your business whom he decides to date. It's a problem if they start talking about your genitals behind your back or something, though. And I found out from my so called best friend that he was cheating on me with her. It's different depending on the situation. Did she like him secretly maybe before you dated him? Some would say, well it was his mistake, heck yeah take it! So then we all became friends. Basically they made my freshman year of high school a living hell.
She is also pursuing her own happiness and you can't stop her from doing just that. To quote one of the great poets of our time, if you liked it then you shoulda put a ring on it. They're a mess and they'll probably do anything to make you feel bad and prove to you that it's ok for them to be dating. I'm sure it hurts, but what can you do? Anyways, Yeah- that is a relational transgression. But it's weird because when me and my ex were talkin before when we were dating he said that he hates my best friend and thinks she's ugly. Also, I would be mad because she should have asked you if you're okay with it first. Okay I actually think that, don't be confused by the shit I dress my opinions up in.
Like if a clerk gives you too much money back for change? Its up to you how u feel when they breakup. That is also why I am very careful in whom I call a friend, I would rather have one real and true friend than five or ten aquaintances that are and never will be a friend. But she had her eye on him for some time so she didn't mind betraying me and going after him. If your still friends with this girl, then how is she to know its bothering you so much? And you can't expect your best friend chuck him just for you. Since your Ex was once your friend you can think of it as your friends are dating each other not your friend and an Ex. I told her that since I still had feelings for him, her behavior hurt my feelings.
Secondly you already know the answer to the question you pose, or you would not be sitting on here tearey eyed and deeply hurt posing it. If a friend wants to date the ex, it is always going to be a difficult situation. So I was like there I'm done, and I broke up with him. It's almost like you want to sabotage the chance of others finding potential happiness and love because you're miserable seeing what you once had. I know because this happened to me. There are just things in life that people that were raised right and those with integrity know how to react to and or not react to and how to conduct themselfs. Well after me and him got to know each other we lived on the same street she moved across the street from him directly across the street.
Assuming that nothing had occured with them during your relationship? You broke up with them, they're not your problem anymore. So we dated for like a month and then I realized why would I go out with some one who cheated on me? It depends on how serious your relationship was with him. I am assuming you told her private details of your realationship? Dont ignore the truth that you can't accept. Well there is such a thing as Karma. It also depends on how close a friend she was to you! This is why I would rather not have friends. That means in all likelihood your friends and your ex's will get on well.
Also integrity aside, I do not like sloppy seconds. The truth is he is not yours anymore. I understand what you are all saying thanks a lot for helping me. Is he really that great to even care? This just resently happened to me and he didn't break up with me until after she said she would go out with him. I left an abusive relationship of four years and my childhood friends ditched me and still hang out with the fat fucking bastard.
I question first if that is a female who said that and second if so and most likely if they have done the same thing as you speak of. If it wasn't so much, then no. And If it's been a month or years , i think it's fine. After they broke up, I found out that he just wanted her as a rebound girlfriend because he couldn't handle being single. Regardless, it is common sense that no one would truly be comfortable with that.
And all along they were attracted to oneanother? This should not be him or me deal and you have no right to say who can date who. So the same day I broke up with him she asks him out! The same thing goes with people you go out with. It hurt so bad to watch someone who I thought was my best friend hanging all over my first love my ex. Sometimes the person you're best friends with, you're best friends with because they're very much like you. They continued going out until last feb. But if it really was, then for sure! You dont need to be mad at her, just stay away from her if you feel weird. .