But the sums of money she would send soon spiralled out of control after receiving a message that Travis had been arrested. Ms Smith said: 'Unfortunately she still felt an attachment to the defendant and stayed in contact for some time and sent him more money until a lady claiming to be the Danish wife of Olasemo contacted her. Military Singles and Civilians looking to meet Military Singles. One of the other victims was Danish woman Joanna Kosz-Strusiewiczqho, who had been divorced for 10 years. These individuals have committed themselves to protecting the freedoms that we cherish and the values that we stand for. Yes if you find a meat head and date you might have issues but if you find a guy that is trying to serve his country is down to earth knows right from wrong then great. Or perhaps they share the same morals and values as those who are serving our country.
In May 2011 her husband died and by December 2012 she had signed up to Match. Prosecutor Ruth Smith said money soon started spiralling into a fortune after he had 'brainwashed' women into believing they were in a real relationship. When police contacted her about the fraud she said she felt 'upset and angry at herself that someone had managed to play on her emotions. Olasemo claimed he was stationed at Camp Joyce, a remote base in eastern Afghanistan near the Pakistan border, where about 700 U. In all honesty it's just like dating in general you are going to find good and bad guys. She was fed the same lies on Match. It may be that they were raised in a military family and miss the close bonds that form amongst military families serving in the same area.
For all your service and personal sacrifice, the world is a much better place! In a victim impact statement read to the court she said: 'I really liked the contact with Travis. The problem I have found when it comes to men in the military that are real dicks is that they joined the military for all the wrong reasons. They also found several false Nigerian passports and driving licenses. He began 'intense online relationships' with the women before beginning to ask for small amounts of money to help pay for leave to visit them over two years. So my suggestion whenever you date someone in the military, yes be aware they have seen shit or done shit in their life that you probably never will but get to know the person.
The guys that joined for all the wrong reasons are the guys that you want to stay away from. Share Ms Smith added: 'The content of the messages were clearly designed to play on the emotional feelings she had for Morgan Travis. By: Kristen Moutria Many men in the military have a hard time finding girlfriends or wives loyal enough to stay with them throughout constant deployments and obstacles. While this may seem like an extreme option, it is the absolute best way to meet men in the military. If you consider yourself a woman who, if she found true love, would be willing to wait for her man while he was away and put up with unexpected challenges, a military man might be the perfect choice for you. He admitted four counts of fraud, four counts of possession of false identity documents, three counts of possession for use in fraud and one count of acquiring criminal property.
Anyway, I've recently met a very nice guy, and now everyone around me including my parents are warning me and waiting for it all to blow up in my face. Several websites are designed to set up women up with military men who want a relationship but have a hard time finding committed women or women in general because of their busy lifestyles. For some people the military is an extension of high school. Meet Military Men and Women Online Now. In the realm of military men, try to avoid the ones that get caught up in unit drama.
She told him he had created a 'tissue of lies' to convince the women to pay him substantial sums of money. However, events are sometimes hosted at military bases, such as air shows, tours, and military base museum hours. It just depends on what you are looking for and their personality. The women believed heroic Captain Morgan Travis was on the lonely hearts website looking for love. Maybe they enjoy the variety that comes with the reassignments to new and exciting areas of the world.
I've worked as a civilian for the army, have friends who have served and have dated someone from almost every branch. He was extremely interested in getting to know me. Olasemo pleaded guilty to 12 counts of fraud between December 2012 and October 2014. Ms Smith said: 'He conducted an online dating fraud exploiting lonely and vulnerable women by pretending he was an American soldier in Afghanistan to get money. Please do not send money or provide personal details to strangers. Olasemo began 'intense online relationships' with the women before beginning to ask for small amounts of money to help pay for leave to visit them over two years via the site stock picture 'When I found out I was terribly ashamed of being so naive and having believed his lies. Police contacted the United States military to try and work out who the soldier was - but they were unable to identify him.
What have been your experiences, good or bad? But still I'm no expert and only have my experiences. This is likely an appealing choice for women who have already considered joining the military. You should not join the military merely to meet military men--but if you are looking for one, this may be your best option. Olasemo pleaded guilty to 12 counts of fraud between December 2012 and October 2014, at Cardiff Crown Court pictured. I live in a very military friendly state. Through their service they are continuing on the time honored traditions of their respective branches of the U.